How to Give Unique Valentine's Day Gifts That Say What You Mean

To most men, Valentine's Day is the day you're supposed to buy flowers or candy for your wife or girlfriend. But to most women, Valentines Day is about expressing your innermost feelings about someone. It's about saying how much you really value someone -- through the purchase of a material object, of course. Here's how to give Valentine's Day gifts she's bound to love.
Steps
1. Think about the message you want to convey to her. Is it, "I think you're special," "I spent the big bucks on you," or, "I want to keep you guessing"? Whatever the message, there's an easy way to communicate it through your gift.
2. For example, if you want to tell her she's special, have a custom poem written for her. Simply search for "custom" poem on Google. Or give her a giant fortune cookie that's customized with your own personal saying. You can get M&M candies or Hershey's World's Largest KISS customized too (but right now the M&M's are back-ordered and won't be shipped in time for Valentine's Day).
3. If you want to show her she's worth the big bucks, jewelry is the ticket. And don't go for any of that mall-store junk, either. Tiffany is the secret. It doesn't matter if you get her a silver keychain or diamond earrings. If it comes wrapped in that robin's egg blue box, she'll adore it -- and you.
4. If you know she loves roses, but you want to keep her guessing, why not send her flowers on the day before Valentine's Day, and have something else sent the next day? That way, she'll appreciate the fact that you know what she likes, but you'll also keep her guessing. 1-800-flowers has a "Two Days of Endless Possibilities" gift that does it all for you. On the first day, they'll deliver a half dozen chocolate-covered strawberries. On the second, they'll deliver a dozen red roses. It's the perfect classic gift with a twist.


Tips
1. You can go one step better than jewelry by giving her the whole store -- well, buying her Tiffany stock. It's like owning the store, isn't it? (See the external links for more info on how to get a framed share of Tiffany stock for around $120.)
2. Both Personal Creations and 1-800-flowers sell giant fortune cookies that can be personalized, free of charge.

Valentine's Day celebration dates back to the ancient times when the 'Feast of Lupercal' was celebrated in the honour of the Roman God of Fertility. This day falls on the 15th of February every year. According to a time worn custom, on the eve of Lupercalia (14th of Feb) a ritual of 'name drawing' was followed, during which a young man drew the name of a girl from the lot, who was to be his sweetheart for the whole year. Romance, has, of course always made the world go round but we must say that these Romans knew how to make it official. Since then, this day (14th of Feb) has been considered as the day of Cupid, the mischievous son of Venus -the Roman Goddess of Love. Lovers through the ages have taken this day as their own - a day to celebrate the finest human emotion. The reason for celebration is ageless, but it was much later that a great lover gave the day his name.

All For Love

The eternal lover that gave us the famous word 'Valentine' and originated the tradition of writing love letters on this day, is believed to be Bishop Valentine. He was a priest in Rome when, the city was ruled by 'Claudius the Cruel'. Inspite of the fact that Claudius had forbiddenChristian conversions and Christian marriages, the Bishop refused to surrender to Roman Gods and carried on his religious duties in secret. He was imprisoned for disobedience, but even in prison he converted the convicts. While he was in prison, the jailer's daughter became his friend and was loyal to him through his ordeal. When Claudius came to know that imprisonment had not broken his enduring Christian spirit, the bishop was executed. However, on the day of his death Valentine wrote a note to his friend, 'the jailer's daughter' and signed it - 'From Your Valentine'. This great man who died for his beliefs, for his enduring love of the Christian God, was chosen as the patron Saint of lovers. 14th February has since been celebrated as Valentine's Day. Romantic souls all over the world have preferred to focus on the romantic twist of this tale, the story of the man who united lovers in the holy bond of marriage; a man who loved his jailer's daughter and started the tradition of writing love notes.
Back To Nature

There is indeed, no lack of inspiration for believers in love and romance. Romantic significance of the 14th of February crosses human boundaries and enters the heart of nature - it was a popular belief in the olden times that the birds chose their mates on this day.


Listen to Your Heart Today

Be it the world of the winged lovers or those with their feet firmly on the ground and their thoughts in the clouds, the popularity of this holiday, among those young at heart proves that the heart does go on. So all you lovers and ' wannabe' lovers out there, rise in love (literally) and stake your claim. To help you carry on the cherished tradition of celebrating your love,we, at My Dear Valentine.com, are just providing new ways to cope with those exuberant, exhilarating and simply undeniable bursts of emotion. Say it on line with flowers, crazy e-cards (as crazy as you feel), mushy mails, the hottest songs and the coolest quotes b'coz my dear Valentine, when Cupid calls - romance reigns. With Cupid on your side, you just can't lose.